Psychological counseling increases by 40%
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- Category: Ningbo News
- Published: Tuesday, 25 March 2014 13:35
2013 saw the counseling number grow nearly forty percent yearly in Ningbo city, among which adolescents enhanced fifty percent, recent statistics from City Counseling Treatment Center displays.
More and more children have test anxiety. Little Lin is 14 years, and he has a strong test anxiety. At ordinary times, Lin ranks first in the class, but he can’t perform well in final exams. It’s going to be much worse. It turns out that his parents give too much concern to his study, requiring him to rank the top three in all examinations when he started school.
“Children’s anxiety is often related to their family, while parents may think that it is due to children’s poor psychology. In fact, children bear the biggest pressure, thus parents need to reduce excessive attention. ”psychiatrist head Zhang said.
Career women now find they are repeatedly rebuffed at home, experts believe that the high-pressure modes of communication should be blamed. Mrs Bi is 40; she is a foreign executive after many years hard-working. But her family life is in a total mess, her husband often plays mahjong or surfs the internet to hide away from her, and her young kid feels bored at the sight of her.
This is a normal phenomenon among successful business women, says the professor.
Career women bring business thinking way into dealing with family member relationship-authority leadership model, which doesn’t work very well. Family is not a court but a sweet place. Wife should be more considerate and less demanding.
Besides, retirees become psychiatric patients. They find they have lost goals and a strong feeling of impotence replaced. Their life is in a complete mess, and their mood is very low. Actually, older people need more psychological care than others; they should play an active part in community activities to achieve self-realization.
